The Girl I Used to Be
Let’s not forget that behind every elderly person, there’s a person with a past…just like you and I.
The Girl I Used to Be
People bustle past my bed; they’ve such a lot to do,
I long for conversation, or a caring word or two,
Nobody is interested and nobody will see,
That inside this frail old lady is the girl I used to be.
I used to go to parties, and I fell in love, like you,
I wore a dazzling wedding gown and promised I’d be true,
I danced a lot, I loved too much, I watched my children grow,
I nursed my man through illness then I sadly let him go.
So when you walk straight by me, please remember I’m like you,
I’ve had troubles that you might just have; done things you’ve yet to do
To you, I’m just a problem, just another OAP,
But remember, I was once like you…one day you’ll be like me.
©Jan Jack 2012
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Funny Wedding Poems & Bespoke Poetry for Occasions written by Comedian/Poet Jan Jack






Love this… I’ve been to three funerals in the past two years and you sometimes forget that the old person you know used to be young once. Brought a massive smile to my face knowing that the 80 year old woman I knew used to roam around in a motorcyle sidecar and be a bit of a party animal in her youth.
Jan, what a moving, emotive piece of writing. I think there’s a message we all need to take note of.